t’s a common belief that positive thinking leads to a happier, happier life. As children, we’re told to smile, be cheerful and put on a happy face. As adults we’re told to look on the bright side, make lemonade and see glasses half full. Sometimes reality can get in our way of the ability to act the happy part though. Your health can fail, boyfriends can cheat, friends can disappoint. It’s in thee moments when you just want to get real, drop the act and be your true, scared, unhappy self.
Ask most people what they want out of life and the answer is simple…to be happy. Maybe it’s this expectation of wanting to be happy that just keeps us from ever getting there. Maybe the more we try to will ourselves to state of bliss, the more confused we get to the point where we don’t recognize ourselves. Instead we just keep smiling, trying to be the happy people we once were until eventually it hits us…it’s been there all along.